My daughter is getting so big. Tonight, she came with me to a friend’s house and she fell down the bottom two stairs because the railing was broken. She cried but she was fine, she was more scared than anything else. I picked her up and we left shortly afterwards.
Then when I was putting her in bed, I said “Sorry you fell down the stairs tonight, I didn’t now the railing was broken and I was behind you and could not keep you from falling.” She said to me. “Mommy, it is not your fault, you didn’t do anything wrong, it was the house’s fault. I love you.”
OMG! She is sounding so big sometimes! She is turning 5 on May 1st but she sounds more like a grown up when she talks like this. She is so amazing! I love that BIG GIRL!
This picture is from the summer but it is a very grown up look, I thought would fit this post… 🙂
We are in the what? hundredth day of snow? What is up with that? We never had this much snow ever. I can remember some winters like this in Maine when there was just snow storm after snow storm and what was good about it was we got numerous days off of school growing up in Maine. I remember when I went to college in Massachusetts, I was excited to see the small amount of snow in Mass that I was determined to move to the area after college. NOW, this is JUST like I remember in Maine. The switch is not fair. I wonder if this means we will have a real hot summer or a real cool summer. I will not complain about the heat in summer, I will not complain about the heat in summer…. ad nauseam. I actually can’t say it is all that cold, it has to warm up some to even snow at all. It was below zero several days ago and there was no precipitation then. What is going on God? I’m not liking this.
***I know I already wrote about snow but we seriously have been getting way too much of it! Sorry for the repitition…I didn’t want to really write today because I have been so aggravated by said snow… will have to shovel out yet again…
How do you DEFINE a friend? That is difficult because it is different for everyone. This is a great blog topic because they could all be so much different. There is no real definintion for a friend. Well, that being said, I looked it up in the Webster’s dictionary, you can see the definition below my blog.
Is a friend the woman who works at the next desk at work from you? Is a friend an occasional text on a lazy saturday? How do YOU define a friend? A friend has some similarities with you and has some willingness to learn more about you and your life. Is interested in what you have to say about you but shares about their life as well. A friend does things for you even when you don’t ask for them. A friend remembers birthdays, anniversaries and other special events with a card or a phone call. As per my title, a friend is part way to stalker but a more welcome one, hopefully. I only say that because it is someone who is always there or on the phone, calling you, but with a friend, you are also calling them. This person is ready and willing to be your shoulder to cry on or your listening ear. A friend also supports you in which ever life events you are working on or dreaming up for that matter.
Also, a friend is someone who stands up for the truth and for what is right and if those pants really don’t look good on you, a friend is the one to tell you! A friend would not let you hurt yourself by letting you drive drunk or let you get involved with that loser (at least not without something to say about it!) A friend cries with you, laughs WITH you but sticks up for you when others laugh AT you. A friend may drive long distances for you or travel to see you from across the country.
A friend is all of the above and more! (or less if THAT is your definition)
Webster’s Dictionary Definition of FRIEND:
a : one that is not hostile b : one that is of the same nation, party, or group
one that favors
or promotes something (as a charity)
capitalized : a member of a Christian sect that stresses Inner Light, rejects sacraments and an ordained ministry, and opposes war —called also Quaker
Have you heard of this? Run by the Trevor Project, it is a group that helps young people who are feeling like they are all alone, like they are the only person who is different, it seems like everyone is against them, hates them, only likes people who are just like them. The bullies yell in their face, stalk them, make them feel unsafe and unworthy of being alive, all because they love someone of the same gender.
What is that? What right do these bigoted bullies have to tell young people who are not “normal” ,according to some, that they don’t deserve the absolute best in life. Everyone deserves to be able to love the person they want no matter their gender. The time around these bullies, will not last. It will get better… There are so many people out there who support you in this life, you don’t have to take what these kids say to heart. The option that some think they have is taking their own life is more permanent than the bulling. Report it, talk about it, scream, make a scene, don’t let them get away with it. Tell your parents, friends, neighbors, teachers, a coach, pastor, someone who is willing to get involved and stop the madness! Your life will get better!
When I saw this topic, I wasn’t exactly sure what I was going to do with it, so here goes: (I believe in God, and please know I don’t mean to offend anyone who does not. If you don’t, think of it as your higher power, buddha or whomever you believe in)
What gives you hope? Love, love can give you hope, love specifically to you, love from God. When things are going right around you. When you smile more than you frown. When others do good things around you. Hope is a difficult thing to define. It is like a feeling but more than a feeling, it is beautiful, it is a child’s innocence and unconditional love. It is a rainbow after a terrible rain storm. It is not something tangible, not something you can touch but you know when it is there. The breeze on a hot summer day, hope is an understanding that God is listening to your prayers. Hearing there is a light at the end of the tunnel, it gets better. It is something that keeps us going.
And what, if anything, makes you question hope? It is the total opposite of what gives you hope. It is a rain storm that lasts and lasts, it is violence and anger and pain. It is a time when everything seems to be going wrong. When you feel isolated and depressed, you feel like God is absent. It is like a dark cloud over your head that you can’t get rid of. It is nasty, and discusting and a place you don’t want to be. Nothing is going right in your life, you can’t relax or sleep or smile. Despair…
And what makes you question your questions of hope? God showing you something so beautiful that your hope comes back. THAT makes you question your questions (or your doubt) of hope!
Interesting word. It means so different as we grow up. When you are little, you don’t even acknowledge other kids your age, then you play next to each other but not together, then you play together but it is like a love-hate relationship. You want to play but you want the other child to be somewhat of a puppet and not play with anything you want to play with in the next minute or half hour. As we get older, friends help us make it through high school and the cruelty.
Then as we grow older still, we look to others who have gone through similar things to vent, cry, laugh and commiserate with. No other relationship is more important, more worthwhile, more cleansing, more freeing than friendship. I know what you are thinking, you might be thinking that your spouse or partner should be all those things… well isn’t that what your spouse or partner is? Your best friend?